Sassy Bride on a Mission

Bride to Wife

2011-01-01T08:00:00.000-06:00

Last night marked the end of my single-dom.

Last night, I got married.

Last night, not only did I ring in the New Year with my brand spanking new husband, but I also became a wife!

Now, that I'm a wife, you can join me on my new adventures at my new blog.

Click the kiss to join me!!!!

Today is THE Day

2010-12-31T08:08:00.000-06:00

It's New Year's Eve 2010.

I am marrying my best friend.

I can't believe this day is all ready here.

Since I was little, I had longed for this day, and now that it's here, I'm wishing time had slowed down.

I didn't know it would be here so quickly!

For the first time all week, I don't have somewhere to rush off to in the morning.

I am lounging in bed at my parent's place before I tackle a few last minute errands.

I am hoping that this day will be relaxing and not stressful.

The church is decorated; the reception hall has been decorated since Wednesday morning; the rehearsal is complete.

Now, all that's left on my To Do List is to relax and enjoy this day.

I'm fairly certain that I can succeed in this task.

In less than 12 hours, I will be pronounced Mrs. GrapeJuice, and we will live in peace and harmony for the next seventy plus years!

What a way to ring in the new year.

2011, here we come!!!!!!!!

Please Reset Me

2010-12-20T08:17:00.000-06:00

I am most definitely in panic mode.

With only two weeks left until the wedding date, I'm starting to freak out a little bit here. It hit me last night that we haven't even gone to get our marriage license! {oh dear...} Plus, I haven't finished Christmas shopping. AND, to top it all off, our house had a carbon monoxide leak that lead to our heat having to be turned off which means that we're obviously not living there right now which means that I'm not able to get some wedding things finished up...unless I decide to brave my house which is probably 40 degrees inside. Also, we're expecting Mr. GrapeJuice's family to stay with next week (if we have heat by then)! WHY NOW??! And because all this craziness if going on, I keep eating junk so now I might not even fit into my dress!!!!!!! Please pray for my sanity as I live with my parents, buy last minute Christmas gifts, finish up all the last minute details of my wedding, and hope that I fit into my gorgeous dress. Hopefully, I'll be back with better news tomorrow.

source :: inspirationfactor.com

Music Monday - Shrek

2010-11-08T07:04:00.000-06:00

Please excuse me as I crawl out from under the rock that I have been hiding under.
We have less than two months until our wedding day.

I would really love to know where all the time went...!

I seriously hope life will begin to slow down at some point...

Please tell me that it does {or, at least, lie to me...}!!

[FIONA]
I waited all my life
Lived it by the book
Now I know that's not my story
You take me as I am
Love me as I look
Standing here in all my glory

I am sweetness
I am bratty
I'm a princess
I'm a fatty
I'm a mess of contradictions in a dress
I am sassy
I am sappy
When I'm with you, I am happy

This is my story

[SHREK]
You laugh at all my jokes
Even though they're crude
You don't mind that I'm not classy

[SHREK & FIONA]
We make a perfect pair
Radiant and rude
So in love and much too gassy

We are ogres
We are scary

[SHREK, FIONA, & DONKEY]
We are donkeys
We are hairy
We have bold and brand new stories to be told
We will write them
We will tell them
You will hear them
You will smell them

This is our story

[Spoken by Shrek]
...And that is how the little ogre came to live on the swamp with a beautiful princess-

[Donkey butts in]
AND his best friend!

[Shrek correcting himself]
AND his best friend!

[Fairytale Creatures joining in]
And a gingerbread man!
And a very handsome puppet!
And an elf!
And a fairy godmother!
And a witch!
And a cross-dressin' wolf!
And the three pigs!

[Sung by all]
What makes us special
(What makes us special)
What makes us special
(What makes us special)
What make us special makes us strong!

We are witches
We are fairies
We are weirdos

[Shouted by Pinocchio]
I'm AN AIRES!

[All Singing]
We're a giant Whitman’s sampler here to try

We are puppets
We are rabbits
We are hobbits with bad habits
We're a screwy but reliant crazy stew
We are different and united
You are us and we are you

This is our story
This is our story
This is our story

[Gingy shouting]
GOD BLESS US EVERYONE!

[Sung by all]
THEEEEEEE EEEEENNND!!!

lyrics :: lyricsreg.com

Oh My Dears...

2010-09-18T11:51:00.000-05:00

Would you believe me if I said that life got away from me?

I surely hope so!

I am a Kindergarten teacher this year, and two times a week, I watch PreKindergarteners after school.

I have little to no spare time between teaching 11 Kindergarten students, caring for 5 PreKindergarten students, and planning the wedding. Slowly, but surely, I am getting back onto my feet and now I can devote time to my blog once again! With less than 4 months until my wedding, I'm sure I'll need to vent about it!

In the next few weeks, I'll update you all on what has happened in the past two months!

{oh my, i can't believe it's been that long!}

...please forgive me...

source: stock illustration source

Pretty Little Angel

2010-07-26T07:48:00.000-05:00

{If you follow me on twitter or facebook, you may all ready know this.}

I have a niece.

Her name is Olivia Laine, but she is also known as Lainey and Lula-Belle.

She is just the sweetest thing...ever!!!!!

I loves her.

all photos are courtesy of my mom and sister.

Music Monday - Kesha

2010-07-19T08:53:00.001-05:00

Yes...I jumped on that bandwagon. :)

Maybe I need some rehab
Or maybe just need some sleep
I've got a sick obsession
I'm seeing it in my dreams
I'm looking down every alley
I'm making those desperate calls
I'm staying up all night hoping
Hitting my head against the wall

What you've got boy is hard to find
I think about it all the time
I'm all strung out, my heart is fried
I just can't get you off my mind

Because your love, your love, your love is my drug
Your love, your love, your love
I said your love, your love, your love is my drug
Your love, your love, your love

Won't listen to any advice
Mama's telling me I should think twice
But love to my own devices
I'm addicted it's a crisis
My friend's think I've gone crazy
My judgement's getting kinda hazy
My steeze is gonna be affected
If I keep it up like a lovesick crackhead

What you've got boy is hard to find
I think about it all the time
I'm all strung out, my heart is fried
I just can't get you off my mind

Because your love, your love, your love is my drug
Your love, your love, your love
I said your love, your love, your love is my drug
Your love, your love, your love

I don't care what people say
The rush is worth the price I pay
I get so high when you're with me
But crash and crave you when you leave
So I've got a question
Do you wanna have a slumber party in my basement?
Do I make your heart beat like an 808 drum?
Is my love your drug?
Your drug, huh your drug, huh your drug
Is my love your drug?

Because your love, your love, your love is my drug
Your love, your love, your love
I said your love, your love, your love is my drug
Your love, your love, your love
Because your love, your love, your love is my drug
Your love, your love, your love
I said your love, your love, your love is my drug
Your love, your love, your love

Hey, hey, so...
Your love, your love, your love, your love
Is my drug... "I like your beard"

lyrics :: lets sing it

I Can Do That!

2010-07-15T08:40:00.003-05:00

I have a jam packed next few weeks before school starts, and I'm stoked about it!

Tomorrow

I'll be meeting with a DJ, going to see some chairs {and hopefully like them!}, and I hope to be signing the catering contract. And, somewhere in there, I'm supposed to be meeting up with my MOH for a coffee date!

Saturday

Mr. GrapeJuice and I will be attending a marriage workshop through the Catholic Diocese of Nashville. It is an Engaged Couples Retreat at Scarritt-Bennett. If you want to read about it, you can click here. We have to fill out a Myers Briggs personality questionnaire form. I hate filling them out because I always get nervous that people will judge me and that I'm answering the questions wrong! {so silly.}

Next Saturday

Mr. GrapeJuice and I will be heading over to Street Tuxedo to check out their suits and tuxedos. I'm hoping to convince him that a gray suit would be the way to go. They look so sleek and would fit into the style of our wedding so well! Hopefully, he'll go for it.

The Last Saturday in July

My ladies from NC are coming in, and we are hopefully going to find a bridesmaid dress! Sadly, my sister won't be joining us because she'll a little newborn to take care of. {I'm going to be an aunt soon!!}

Plus, during all this time, I'm supposed to be setting up my classroom and getting it ready for the next school year. I haven't been able to go in yet though since they're in the process of replacing all of the flooring due to the flood at the beginning of May.

photo :: lolcars

Wishful Wednesday

2010-07-14T05:03:00.000-05:00

After posting about sweets yesterday, I began to think about my tendencies in life.

I wish...

that I had the self-discipline to get my fat ass off the couch and workout instead of baking sweets and eating all of them.

With the wedding less than six months away, I need to start improving my eating and exercising habits

But how?

photo :: bella on the beach

Dazzle 'Em

2010-07-13T16:16:00.000-05:00

Yesterday, I had a meeting for school.

My grade level, Kindergarten, was in charge of bringing dessert.

Someone was all ready bringing chocolate and key lime pies.

So, I decided to bring cookies!

I haven't made cookies in such a long time that I was really excited to make some!

I decided to make Ruby Jewel cookies.

I found the recipe in my Williams-Sonoma Cookie cookbook.

It was really easy!

Plus, they was a huge hit!!

Ruby Jewel Cookies

*Makes about 3 dozen cookies

2 large egg yolks
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
2 ¼ cups all purpose flour
2/3 cup sugar
1 cup cold butter, cut into small pieces
About 1/3 cup seedless raspberry jam or other thick jam
Confectioner’s sugar for dusting

Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Have ready two ungreased baking sheets or mini muffin pans and liners
.
In a small bowl, whisk the egg yolks and vanilla together; set aside.

Combine the flour and sugar in a large bowl and whisk to combine. Scatter the butter pieces over the top of the flour and sugar and with a pastry blender or two forks, work in the butter until the mixture resembles coarse crumbs. Add the egg yolk mixture and carefully mix to combine until the dough starts to come together (this worked best using my hands).

Turn the dough out onto a sheet of plastic wrap and shape it into a flat disk. Wrap and refrigerate until chilled, about 1 hour.

With lightly floured hands, pinch off pieces of dough and shape the dough into ¾-inch balls. Place each ball in a mini muffin paper liner, if using. If not using a mini muffin pan, place the cookies 1 inch apart on the baking sheets.

Using the end of a wooden spoon handle dipped in flour, make an indentation in the center of each cookie, but do not press all the way through the dough. Using a spoon or a pastry bag fitted with a plain tip, fill each indentation with about ¼ teaspoon jam.

Bake the cookies until the edges are golden, 15-20 minutes. Let the cookies cool completely on the pans on wire racks. Transfer cooled cookies to wire racks and dust with confectioner’s sugar.

Recipe Source: adapted from Williams-Sonoma Cookies

recipe & photo :: my kitchen cafe

Wedding Fact Friday

2010-07-09T09:54:00.003-05:00

I am posting this to spite Mr. GrapeJuice.

We are both Catholic, and we are planning to have a Catholic wedding.

However, I think it would be really beneficial {and efficient} to see each other before the ceremony.

Of course, he does not agree. This is the one aspect where he wants to be traditional.

Does he care if I wear a veil? nope.

Does he want my dress to be white? yes, but he's come to terms with the fact that it's not.

So...why can't he give up on this notion as well?

He says that if I can prove a valid point then he'll seriously consider it.

Well, last night I showed him the fact below, and he said it wasn't credible because there was a "typo!"

{do you think a five paragraph essay would win him over?}

"The Groom Not Seeing The Bride Before The Wedding - (Superstition)

Many of our current wedding "customs" originate from century old superstitions that would avoid incurring bad luck. In ancient times, marriages were considered a business arrangement made between family members, rather than a celebration of love. Marriages cemented alliances between families and insured transfer of land and wealth between them.

Often the groom had not met or even seen his future wife before the ceremony. The bride was kept hidden to eliminate any disapproval of her from the groom. It was feared that once seeing her he may have refused to proceed with the ceremony. This of course would have bought bad luck, by putting the family's financial arrangements in jeopardy.

Today this custom has lost its relevance. Arranged marriages are not very common in our modern North American society nor will the Catholic Church condone a marriage between people who have never met. A Catholic wedding ceremony is a sacrament that couples administer to each other, so it must be a ceremony of mutual consent. Many couples are abandoning this custom of hiding from one another, choosing instead to have private time together for prayer and reflection before the ceremony. They then as a couple greet their guests upon their arrival."

source :: catholicbrides.com
photo :: chris + lynn photograhpy

p.s. if you notice the typo, please let me know because i don't see it!

Honeymoon & Winner

2010-07-07T09:06:00.000-05:00

It was a really close tie between St. Lucia and Hawaii.

But...

if all goes according to plan, we'll go to Hawaii.

That's what won!

{of course, now, Mr. GrapeJuice wants to go to Universal Studios because of The Wizarding World of Harry Potter. am i really surprised though?}

And...

the lucky winner of the Starbucks gift card is...

maria!

Send me an email with your address, sweetie.

source :: soma get fit

Music Monday - Faith Hill

2010-07-06T10:58:00.000-05:00

When I think back
On these times
And the dreams
We left behind
I'll be glad 'cause
I was blessed to get
To have you in my life
When I look back
On these days
I'll look and see your face
You were right there for me

[Chorus:]
In my dreams
I'll always see you soar
Above the sky
In my heart
There will always be a place
For you for all my life
I'll keep a part
Of you with me
And everywhere I am
There you'll be
And everywhere I am
There you'll be

Well you showed me
How it feels
To feel the sky
Within my reach
And I always
Will remember all
The strength you
Gave to me
Your love made me
Make it through
Oh, I owe so much to you
You were right there for me

[Repeat chorus]

'Cause I always saw in you
My light, my strength
And I want to thank you
Now for all the ways
You were right there for me
You were right there for me
For always

[Chorus:]
In my dreams
I'll always see you soar
Above the sky
In my heart
There will always be a place
For you for all my life
I'll keep a part
Of you with me
And everywhere I am
There you'll be
And everywhere I am
There you'll be
There you'll be

lyrics :: azlyrics

Matching Your Couple Personality

2010-07-01T08:28:00.004-05:00

In other words, choosing the right cake topper.

Trivial? yes.

Important none-the-less? yes.

When picking your cake topper, it's got to reflect you!

Not your mother or your grandmother or our sister or your mother-in-law.

You're putting it on your wedding cake after all.

You have to walk into the reception and see it there.

You don't want to walk in, see it, and think, "ugh! why?"

So, for Mr. GrapeJuice and I, our cake topper will reflect our playful couple personality.

We're always joking around or sneaking little love taps on each others derriere.

Meaning, floral cake toppers and monogram cake toppers are out for us!

Here's what I like...

Cheeky Couple Figurine: "My Main Squeeze"

source :: cute party supplies & elegant wedding accessories

"Romance" Kissing Couple

source :: that's my topper

"Super Sexy Dancing" Wedding Bride and Groom Cake Topper Figurine

source :: wedding collectibles

"Picture Perfect" Couple Figurine

source :: cute party supplies

Playful Football Wedding Couple Figurine

source :: online bridal store

"The Love Pinch" Bridal Couple Figurine

sources :: kiwi cakes & jw caketops

True Romance Couple Figurine

source :: wedding favours

I Wish...

2010-06-30T12:02:00.000-05:00

...that my school wouldn't flood!

Apparently, in the downpour that occurred Saturday, my school flooded...again.

Not only that, but worse than the floods at the beginning of May.

I don't know how it happened...but it needs to stop.

Mmkay?

thanks.

Why I Love My Sister

2010-06-29T08:19:00.002-05:00

This is why I love my little sister...

She created this gorgeous invite for the wedding.

I'm so stoked!

She also happens to be expecting.

Only one more month to go until my niece graces us with her presence!

If you like my sister's work, you can check out her website.

Musical Monday - GLEE

2010-06-28T13:05:00.000-05:00

I wanna hold them like they do in Texas please
Fold em' let em' hit me raise it baby stay with me
Love the game intuition play the cards with spades to start
And after he's been hooked I'll play the one
That's on his heart

ow o-ow ow ow o-ow ow
I'll get him hot, and show him what I've got
ow o-ow ow ow o-ow ow whoaa oh
I'll get him hot, and show him what I've got

Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
She's got to love nobody
Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
She's got to love nobody

Po-po-po-poker face, po-po-poker face
Po-po-po-poker face, po-po-poker face

I wanna roll with him a hard pair we will be
A little gambling is fun when you're with me
Russian Roulette is not the same without a gun
And baby when it's love if its not rough it isn't fun

ow o-ow ow ow o-ow ow
I'll get him hot, and show him what I've got
ow o-ow ow ow o-ow ow
I'll get him hot, and show him what I've got

Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
She's got to love nobody
Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
She's got to love nobody

I won't tell you that I love you
Kiss or hug you cause I'm bluffin
With my muffin
I'm not lying I'm just stunnin with my love-glue-gunning

Just like a chick in the casino
Take your bank before I pay you out
I promise this, promise this
Check this hand cause I am marvelous

I'm marvelous,  I'm marvelous
I'm marvelous so marvelous
She's got to love nobody
Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
She's got to love nobody

source :: lyrics-celebrities

Wedding Fact Friday

2010-06-25T10:26:00.000-05:00

In Fiji,

"it is customary for a groom to present a valuable gift to his bride's father. Traditionally, this present should be a whale's tooth, symbolizing status and wealth."

source :: worldweddingtraditions.com

photo :: cinoa

Ooooo...shiney!

2010-06-24T11:58:00.000-05:00

Yesterday, I spent the whole afternoon with my grandmother. It was awesome! We are so much alike, and I absolutely love it. :)

We were on a mission...to find the material for my wedding day necklace.

She's going to make it for me!

{I feel so blessed.}

We found some ivory pearls,

source :: fire mountain gems

and we found some gray pearls

source :: fire mountain gems

My grandmother is going to make a multi-strand pearl necklace by alternating the stands.

One ivory, one gray, one ivory, one gray, one ivory, and one more gray.

I'm really stoked!

Then, we're going to add an embellishment to the necklace...like a brooch/pin.

My grandma has one that she wore in high school that she let me have.

I played around with it a little today, and here's what I came up with.

Your thoughts?

Grandma also gave me a hair comb that I'm going to try to incorporate into my fascinator and a bracelet that matches both the hair comb and the brooch she gave me.

She also gave me some fabulous clip on earrings that I'm thinking about using as shoe clips...maybe. I'm still undecided on that front.

Yesterday, we also got our wedding bands in the mail!!!!!!

I was so stoked to see that package on the dining room table when I got home.

I tore through it like nobody's business.

Please excuse my horrendous phone pictures.

p.s. Don't forget to vote for where Mr. GrapeJuice and I should go on our honeymoon! {You might win a Starbucks gift card!}

Wishful Wednesday - a Honeymoon & a Giveaway

2010-06-23T09:33:00.006-05:00

Mr. GrapeJuice and I are having the hardest time choosing where to go on our honeymoon. We've had so many ideas that we can't even pick one. It's also harder to pick a honeymoon when you come up with a new idea every other day. {oops!}

So...

Since Mr. GrapeJuice and I can't decide,

we're going to let YOU pick for us!

Oh, yes.

We are seriously trusting you with this decision.

Don't you feel special?

You should!

Here's a little background information on our Honeymoon.

We're getting married on New Year's Eve.

However, we're not going on our honeymoon until March 2011.

I don't want to miss work so we are going to wait until my school goes on Spring Break!

{yay for being a teacher.}

Below are our picks that are within our budget {which is very important}.

They are in no particular order.

Pick #1

New York City

source :: Google Images

Pick #2

Hawaii

source :: fenichel

Pick #3

St. Lucia

source :: wlal.wordpress.com

Pick #4

Mexican Riviera Cruise

source :: a-ztours.com

Pick #5

San Antonio

source :: baltitravel.com

Pick #6

Key West

source :: akeywestwedding.com

Please cast your vote in the comments section!

If you do, you just might find yourself the lucky winner of a Starbucks gift card.

source :: flickr

Yep. That's right!

One lucky person who votes on where Mr. GrapeJuice and I should go for our honeymoon will win a Starbucks gift card!

So, please, VOTE.

We desperately need your help.

Some Guidelines...
You can vote on where we should go for our honeymoon until July 4th at midnight {cst}.
However, you may only vote once.
On July 5th, I will announce the winner of the Starbucks gift card and our honeymoon destination!

Anyone who votes is eligible to win the gift card, whether or not the honeymoon you voted for is the winner.

This giveaway is only for U.S. and Canada residents.

[as a note:: this is not a sponsored/compensated post. no money/product was given in exchange for advertisement.]

Shoes...again

2010-06-22T08:16:00.000-05:00

On Saturday, Mr. GrapeJuice and I took a little day tip to Chattanooga.

We went to the aquarium. :)

The penguins are super cool!

Anyway, on our back from Chattanooga, we stopped at the shopping center in Murfreesboro that's right of off I-24. I'd never been there before, but they had an Off Broadway Shoes.

And, as you all know, I'm in some serious need of some wedding day shoes!

So, Mr. GrapeJuice and I popped in there.

I almost found what I was looking for.

I tried on these pretty Luichinies.

source :: shoes.com

They're just not exactly what I'm looking for.

The color's a little too dark, and I'm not completely crazy about the strap.

But, I discovered something interesting when trying them on.

I was still a teeny bit shorter than Mr. GrapeJuice...and they boast that the shoe has a 4.5 inch heel.!!

So,

you best believe that I'm pouncing on these li'l mamas by rsvp!!!!!!!

source :: zappos.com

Hopefully they look good with my dress too!

p.s. Look for a sweet surprise tomorrow!

Musical Monday - Michael Buble

2010-06-21T08:53:00.000-05:00

Wedding Fact Friday

2010-06-18T10:40:00.000-05:00

In South Africa...

"...to mark the start of the newlyweds life together, the bride's and groom's parents would traditionally carry a fire from their hearths in their homes to the home of the new couple, where a new fire would be lit."

source : .worldweddingtraditions.com

photo : zungumza.wordpress.com

Wedding Inspiration

2010-06-15T09:19:00.000-05:00

Wedding Inspiration by SassyBrideTN featuring Paris Hilton shoes

Wedding Fact Friday

2010-06-11T16:20:00.000-05:00

It's back...finally!

I think this has been my favorite part about my wedding blog.

I have seriously enjoyed learning about other wedding traditions around the world.

Today, I'm going to focus on Mexico!

"In Mexico, for example, it is customary during the vows for a white ribbon or for a rosary, called a “lasso,” to be draped around the necks of the newlyweds to symbolize their joining together. "

source: weddingbee

"It is also customary for the groom to present his wife with thirteen gold coins during the ceremony, symbolizing the groom’s commitment to support his new wife. "

source: weddingunitycoins.com

"As the couple leaves the church it is customary for red beads to be tossed at them as a means of insuring the new couple good luck."

source: redbeads.org

source: worldweddingtraditions.com

On My Head

2010-06-09T15:34:00.000-05:00

Since I bought my dress back in January, I have wondered and pondered what to wear on my head. I thought about a cathedral length veil, a chapel length veil, a birdcage veil, etc.Apparently, though, birdcage veils don't look good on me...at all! And, I couldn't find an appropriate length veil that wasn't over $200 dollars. That's a lot of money to spend on a veil that you'll only be wearing for the ceremony. So, I've decided to wear my mother's veil, which I'm very excited about!

Please don't mind my awesome facial expressions...

And, don't worry, we'll be removing the 80s-tasticness of the veil...like the floral nightmare on the crown of it!

Shoe Heartbreak

2010-06-08T06:38:00.000-05:00

I cannot begin to tell you how many pairs of shoes I have fallen in love with since I began to look for them back in February. They always seem to be just a little bit out of my reach though.

For example, I found these!

Perfect in almost every single way...except that the heel is 4 inches tall!

Could I walk in them?

You bet your cute butt I could!

Is that the problem?

no.

The problem is that I'm 5'6" - which is average.

Mr. GrapeJuice, however, is 5'11".

The shoes would make me just as tall as him...which he does not like.

Bye Bye, Nearly Perfect Shoes. :(

Then, I met this pair...

It would have been such a great shoe for New Years Eve.

It is supposed to be available through DSW.

Yeeeaaaahhhh. Not so much.

I went to the store in Hendersonville, and they didn't have it.

So, I decided that I would just order them.

Nope. Can't do that either. They're out of my size!

grr.

Now what am I supposed to do?!

Two perfect shoes...gone!

Let me tell you - it's getting a little frustrating.

Not only are there very few shoes that are the color I want them, but most of the ones that are the right are - conveniently - 4 inches or higher!

WHY? WHY? WHY?

Now, I've become consumed with finding the perfect shoes for my wedding day.

Currently, I've got these two pairs of shows on my brain...

This pair, which isn't exactly the right color,

and, this pair, which I would have dyed to be blue.

Who knew the shoe search could be soooooooooooooo exhausting?!

photos : zappos (Nina, rsvp, Coloriffics) and dsw (Paris Hilton)

Reckless Abandonment

2010-06-07T18:10:00.000-05:00

It's June?!

WHAT?!

Where did the time go?

So much has happened since I last blogged.

I can't believe I abandoned you for nearly a month.

I'm an awful person.

I wish I could say that something devastating happened to me to render me incapable of blogging, but it didn't.

I simply didn't have the time.

Silly career!

Why do you have to suck up all my time?

Well, it's summer time, which means I have time to myself to plan my wedding - finally.

This also means I'll have a lot more content to share with you all!

That's always good, right?

I'll have more tomorrow.

Sharing is Caring

2010-05-13T19:47:00.000-05:00

Today was a weird day at school.

But, I've learned a lot from it, and in the process, stumbled upon two wonderful websites that I feel I need to share with you!

1. FLYlady.net

FLY is an acronym for Finally Love Yourself.

"FlyLady uses the Sidetracked Home Executive (SHE) system as a basis for organizing her home and her life. She adds humor, spunk, and a dose of common sense to her advice, but be prepared - FlyLady does not allow whining. You have to get off your 'Franny'!"

Please join me in FLYing. The first step is to Shine Your Sink!

I can't wait to start.

2. Operation Beautiful

This is kind of like PostSecret but much more self-esteem boosting!

"The goal of the Operation Beautiful website is to end negative self-talk or “Fat Talk.” If this little blog only does one productive thing, I hope it helps readers realize how truly toxic negative self-talk is — it hurts you emotionally, spiritually, and physically."

I encourage you all to try to take part in this randomly. Maybe post a note in the bathroom at work. Or, put it on a random car window. You never know whose day you'll brighten with your kind words!

Musical Monday - Iyaz

2010-05-10T07:55:00.001-05:00

Replay by Iyaz

Shawty´s like a melody in my head
That I can´t keep out
Got me singin´ like
Na na na na everyday
It´s like my iPod stuck on replay replay-ay-ay-ay (2x)

Remember the first time we met
You was at the mall wit yo friend
I was scared to approach ya
But then you came closer
Hopin´ you would give me a chance

Who would have ever knew
That we would ever be more than friends
We´re real worldwide breakin all the rules
She like a song played again and again

That girl like somethin off a poster
That girl is a dime they say
That girl is a gun to my holster
She´s runnin through my mind all day ay

Shawty´s like a melody in my head
That I can´t keep out
Got me singin´ like
Na na na na everyday
It´s like my iPod stuck on replay replay-ay-ay-ay (2x)

See you been all around the globe
Not once did you leave my mind
We talk on the phone from night til the morn
Girl you really change my life
Doin things I never do
I´m in the kitchin cookin things she likes

We´re real worldwide breakin all the rules
Someday I wanna make you my wife
That girl like somethin off a poster
That girl is a dime they say
That girl is the gun to my holster
She´s runnin through my mind all day ay

Shawty´s like a melody in my head
That I can´t keep out
Got me singin´ like
Na na na na everyday
It´s like my ipon stuck on replay replay-ay-ay-ay (2x)

I can be your melody
A girl that could write you a symphony
The one that could fill your fantasies
So come baby girl let´s sing with me
Ay I can be your melody
A girl that could write you a symphony
The one that could fill your fantasies
So come baby girl let´s sing with me

Ay na na na na na na na
Na na na na na na
Shawty got me singin
Na na na na na na na
Na na na na na na na
Now she got me singin

Shawty´s like a melody in my head
That I can´t keep out
Got me singin´ like
Na na na na everyday
It´s like my iPod stuck on replay replay-ay-ay-ay (2x)

lyrics : 6lyrics.com

Life in the Past Two Weeks - Pt. 2

2010-05-02T19:40:00.000-05:00

WE'VE HAD A LOT OF RAIN!

If you haven't been following the weather in the Southern states, then you've missed some serious craziness!

The weekend before (April 24th), we had some torrential down pours in the Nashville area. It was so bad that at some points you couldn't see two feet in front of you.

However, I had to go out into the rain, and I'm so disappointed that I did. I had to head to my school for our Spring Festival. On the way, I hydroplaned. It was, what I thought at the time, the worst experience I'd ever had. I wasn't the only one in the car either; my nine year old brother was with me. Without going into too much detail, I crossed all four lanes of I-40E and hit the retaining wall. I completely totaled my car.

Here's what it looked like after it happen. Please don't worry though. Both my brother and I are okay; just a few bumps and bruises!

So, now I'm looking for a new car. I've found one that I really like. Now, I just need to find it in my price range. Or, at the very least, something that I can reasonably finance.

And, now, we are currently battling floods in Middle TN. There is a creek near my house, and I'm supremely nervous that we'll obtain some water. Right now, we're okay, but anything could happen. Our town square is under three or four feet of water. All I can say is that it's just simply unbelievable. We need prayers, desperately!

Life in the Past Two Weeks - Pt. 1

2010-05-01T08:29:00.000-05:00

A lot has happened since Mr. GrapeJuice and I moved into our new house. We're still unpacking, but we've definitely gotten used to living on our own. We've even lost some weight in the process! Mr. GrapeJuice says this is because of my cooking. Not that my cooking is bad! It's just that I make the right portions without a lot of leftovers. Mr. GrapeJuice and I are the type of people that will eat because the food is there in front of us. Being on our own has definitely helped us drop that little habit.

But...onto happier topics {not that food isn't a happy topic!}.

Like, photography!

Back at the very beginning of March, I won a free photo shoot through Framed by Fletcher.

We had scheduled a photo shoot for the middle of March but it POURED that whole day so we rescheduled.

Boy, am I glad we did!!

We got some super hot photos at dusk in Nashville!

Mr. GrapeJuice and I are seriously considering this couple for our big day!

I hope we can agree upon something soon.

I'm Back!

2010-04-27T19:45:00.000-05:00

Oh, wow...

It's my first day back to blogging in almost two weeks!

I can't believe I've been gone for this long.

A LOT has happened.

I'm talking a LOT!!

We'll get to that later.

Right now, I need your help.

Ashley's Bride Guide is having a contest.

They want to know who Nashville's Best Bridal Blogger is.

You can vote for me...or your other favorite!

Just head over here and vote for me if I'm your favorite.

And, if I'm not your favorite, please DO vote for your favorite.

We all work very hard to blog about weddings and would love to know what you think!

You gals {and guys?} are fabulous!

Be Back Soon

2010-04-11T18:53:00.000-05:00

Mr. GrapeJuice and I moved into our new home.

We don't have Internet yet.

I'll be back as soon as we do!!

Bridesmaid Dress

2010-04-06T05:56:00.000-05:00

Long ago...

in the summer of 2009...

in the prime of my engagement...

I thought the dress below was absolutely perfect.

Now...

when I look at it...

it looks terribly structured and uncomfortable.

I have now found the dress below.

It looks sooooo comfortable and New-Years-Eve-party ready!

The criss-cross pattern echos the similar style on my gown.

And, I think the little flower on the shoulder strap is super sweet!

The dress also comes in gray, but it's not as va-va-voom! as the dress is in blue.

photos : david's bridal, moonlight bridal

Musical Monday - Train

2010-04-05T13:58:00.000-05:00

This song is unlike any of their other songs.

It's more upbeat and fresh.

It's perfect for Spring and Summer...and especially moving into a new home!

Your lipstick stains on the front lobe of my left side brains
I knew I wouldn't forget you
And so I went and let you blow my mind
Your sweet moving
The smell of you in every single dream I dream
I knew when we collided you're the one I have decided
Who's one of my kind

Hey soul sister, ain't that mister mister on the radio, stereo
The way you move ain't fair you know
Hey soul sister, I don't wanna miss a single thing you do tonight

Just in time, I'm so glad you have a one track mind le me
You gave my life direction
A game show love connection, we can't deny
I'm so obsessed
My heart is bound to beat right out my untrimmed chest
I believe in you, like a virgin, you're Madonna
And I'm always gonna wanna blow your mind

Hey soul sister, ain't that mister mister on the radio, stereo
The way you move ain't fair you know
Hey soul sister, I don't wanna miss a single thing you do tonight

Well you can cut a rug
Watching you is the only drug I need
So gangster, I'm so thug
You're the only one I'm dreaming of
You see I can be myself now finally
In fact there's nothing I cant be
I want the world to see you'll be with me

Hey soul sister, ain't that mister mister on the radio, stereo
The way you move ain't fair you know
Hey soul sister, I don't wanna miss a single thing you do tonight
Hey soul sister, I don't wanna miss a single thing you do tonight

lyrics : azlyrics

Happy Easter

2010-04-04T11:00:00.000-05:00

I just wanted to take a quick moment and wish everyone a Happy Easter!

I hope you enjoy your day filled with Easter egg hunting, candy, ham, and lots of other goodies.

photo : catalogs.com

A Request

2010-04-02T08:57:00.000-05:00

On this beautiful Friday, I have a quick request to make of all you lovely ladies {and gentlemen?}.

Times are tough, and the school that I teach at is feeling that burden.

We are not a public school; we are private and rely heavily on tuition and registration.

So, during this Easter season, if you could take just a moment to pray {or think, if you're not inclined to pray} about our little school.

If we don't get many more students, I may be out of a job and the school I once attended as a child might slowly drift away.

Mr. GrapeJuice and I are worried because we are closing on our house one week from today, and now, we don't know if I'll be employed in 3 months.

I'd really appreciate just a little thought up to God about keeping the school in good graces so that we can continue to teach children.

Every little bit helps!

photos : we your people, ours the journey & big government

Thanks and Appreciation

2010-04-01T14:02:00.001-05:00

I just want to say a quick thank you to everyone who made my day special yesterday! It was one of the best birthdays I've had. It was very real, and I felt loved. So, thanks!

One Year Older

2010-03-31T05:48:00.000-05:00

It's my birthday!

It's my birthday!

IT'S MY BIRTHDAY!

That is all.

photo : worshipoetry

I'm a Big Girl Now!

2010-03-30T05:05:00.000-05:00

For the past couple of weekends, Mr. GrapeJuice and I have been couch shopping.
It's been kind of hard to please each other. He wants one thing, and I want another.

Luckily, this past weekend we found something we both liked!

We found it at American Signature Furniture.
Isn't it darling?
I think it'll look wonderful in our new living room.
I think the sectional is a great way to add a lot of seating without taking up too much room.

[as a note:: this is not a sponsored/compensated post. no money/product was given in exchange for advertisement.]

Musical Monday - Orianthi

2010-03-29T05:54:00.003-05:00

I love, love, love jamming out to this song when it comes on the radio.
It's fabulous! Such a mood booster. :)

According to you
I'm stupid,
I'm useless,
I can't do anything right.
According to you
I'm difficult,
hard to please,
forever changing my mind.
I'm a mess in a dress,
can't show up on time,
even if it would save my life.
According to you. According to you.

But according to him
I'm beautiful,
incredible,
he can't get me out of his head.
According to him
I'm funny,
irresistible,
everything he ever wanted.
Everything is opposite,
I don't feel like stopping it,
so baby tell me what I got to lose.
He's into me for everything I'm not,
according to you.

According to you
I'm boring,
I'm moody,
you can't take me any place.
According to you
I suck at telling jokes cause I always give it away.
I'm the girl with the worst attention span;
you're the boy who puts up with that.
According to you. According to you.

But according to him
I'm beautiful,
incredible,
he can't get me out of his head.
According to him
I'm funny,
irresistible,
everything he ever wanted.
Everything is opposite,
I don't feel like stopping it,
so baby tell me what I got to lose.
He's into me for everything I'm not,
according to you.

I need to feel appreciated,
like I'm not hated. oh... no...
Why can't you see me through his eyes?
It's too bad you're making me decide.

According to me
you're stupid,
you're useless,
you can't do anything right.
But according to him
I'm beautiful,
incredible,
he can't get me out of his head.
According to him
I'm funny,
irresistible,
everything he ever wanted.
Everything is opposite,
I don't feel like stopping it,
baby tell me what I got to lose.
He's into me for everything I'm not,
according to you. (you, you)
According to you. (you, you)

According to you
I'm stupid,
I'm useless,
I can't do anything right.

lyircs : azlyrics

Wishful Wednesday

2010-03-24T17:15:00.000-05:00

I wish...

that my birthday would get here faster!

...only one more week to go...

{I'm anxiously awaiting my gifts.}

photo : chicago now

Wedding Flowers

2010-03-23T05:46:00.002-05:00

I know most people prefer real flowers for their wedding bouquets. And, I know most people in the wedding business tend to look down on silk florals. I, on the other hand, am all for them...especially when one is a budget bride. I am a budget bride. Ergo, I will be using silk bouquets. I debated whether or not to splurge for real flowers for myself, but I think it would be rude if only I had them. Do you agree?

So...after my trip to Hobby Lobby a few weeks ago, I decided to have my lovely ladies carry white tulips. I know they are a spring flower and that my wedding is in the winter, but they look snowy white. If I'm making a faux pas, please do not tell me. I'll be self-conscious about it! :)

photo : soda head

I am, however, having an issue deciding what color and type flowers I should carry. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm seriously at a loss. I thought about cream peonies, but I figured the white tulips and cream peonies might clash. Plus, my color scheme doesn't really give way to many other flower color choices. Blech. Dilemma. Dilemma. Why me?

Musical Monday - Ne-Yo

2010-03-22T05:14:00.002-05:00

So...I have a HUGE guilty pleasure. Like, MAJOR guilty pleasure! It's called Disney Princess movies. I love, love, love them. They are entirely entertaining and uplifting. Plus, I simply adore the music. My favorite part of Disney movies is being able to sing along.

Well, Disney's The Princess and the Frog came out on DVD this past Tuesday.

I saw it when it came out in theaters back in December.

I rented the movie Friday afternoon and watched it three times before returning it on Saturday afternoon.

Sad? Maybe.

But, thoroughly enjoyable!

The music is thrilling, and I love the time period in which the movie is set.

So, I picked a song from the movie to share with you today.

It's a lovely modern song sung by Ne-Yo.

For the way you changed my plans
For being the perfect distraction

For the way you took the idea that I had
of everything that I wanted to have
and made me see there was something missing...

For the ending of my first begin
(And) For the rare and unexpected friend

For the way you're something that I'd never choose
but at the same time something I don't wanna lose
and never wanna be without ever again...

You're the best thing I never knew I needed
when you appear I had no idea...

You're the best thing I never knew I needed
so now it's so clear I need you here, always...

My accidental happily (ever after)
The way you smile and how you comfort me (with your laughter)

I must admit you were not a part of my book
but now if you open it up and take a look
you're the beginning and the end of every chapter...

You're the best thing I never knew I needed
when you appear I had no idea...

You're the best thing I never knew I needed (that I needed)
so now it's so clear I need you here, always...

Who knew knew that I could be...
So unexpectedly...
Undeniably happy (yeah)
With you right here, right here next to me...

You're the best thing I never knew I needed
when you appear I had no idea...

You're the best thing I never knew I needed (that I needed)
so now it's so clear I need you here, always...

...Now it's so clear, I need you here always

lyrics : sing365

In His Finest

2010-03-20T15:32:00.000-05:00

Instead of using words to describe Mr. GrapeJuice, I will use this video.

Because, the moment I saw this I laughed; it captures him perfectly!

Thank you, Sears Blue Appliance Crew. :)

Wedding Fact Friday

2010-03-19T08:52:00.002-05:00

I love the chivalry of this!

"The bride stands to the groom's left during a Christian ceremony because, in bygone days, the groom needed his right have free to fight off other suitors." (source)

photo : metro mix - hudson valley

A Version of my Dress on Platinum Weddings

2010-03-18T10:14:00.001-05:00

I like to find inspiration in lots of places. Sometimes, ~~when I really want to torture myself~~, I watch Platinum Weddings on WeTV. There are some good ideas on there, but it usually baffles me how much money they spend! At any rate, I was watching the show one day and saw a version of my wedding dress! It's not exactly my dress though. {AHEM, Mr. GrapeJuice!} I was just so thrilled by it that I just had to share. :)

photo : visionari via yvonne design

FREE Photography

2010-03-17T12:41:00.004-05:00

I am here to interrupt your regularly scheduled {and dreary, rainy} day to tell you about a great opportunity for Tennessee brides-to-be!

Would you like to win free wedding photography?

{I seriously hope your answer is yes!}

Well, then have I got a treat for you.

A few moments ago, I was contacted by Melissa of Melissa Hayes Photography.

She is a phenomenal documentary and lifestyle photographer located in Chicago, IL.

Currently, she is hosting a contest for free wedding photography for one lucky Tennessee bride.

The rules are quite simple, and so is entering.

The RULES are...

~ Your wedding must be taking place in 2010.

~ You cannot have a photographer booked already.

{See? Simple!}

To ENTER...

Go to Twitter

Follow @melissahfoto

Then, post this message, "@melissahfoto Tennessee Bride To Be!"

{Even simpler!}

There's no catch, but the contest does end March 20th!

That's this Saturday.

Hurry! Hurry! Hurry!

Wishful Wednesday

2010-03-17T09:39:00.010-05:00

I wish...

I knew what to wear for out photography shoot on Sunday.

We are having our free photo shoot downtown around sunset.

I'm not sure what to wear though.

Any recommendations?

I'm trying desperately hard NOT to buy something new.

Please help.

p.s. Happy St. Patrick's Day!

p.p.s. This is my 200th post! [yay me!]

photos : anne ruthmann photography, squidoo, blogged down at the moment

Hair Inspiration

2010-03-16T07:47:00.000-05:00

Here is my hair inspiration. My thought is to wear my hair down for the ceremony and, somehow, put it up for the reception. I want to wear a cathedral or chapel length veil for the ceremony. Then, I plan on putting up my hair and wearing a feather/flower fascinator for the reception. Does that sound unreasonable?

I Dropped the Ball

2010-03-15T06:48:00.000-05:00

As my father would say, I dropped the ball. I failed. I totally let you down. I'm the missing Wallenda. I started out the month so strong, posting something every day of the week. Then, this past week, I gave you nothing... Shame on me!
Well, I'm on Spring Break this week. Hopefully, I'll be able to keep on top of myself AND get some wedding things done.
To get things back on track, let's start this week with the good music perfect for a New Years Eve wedding. I'm seriously considering having this song played on our big day.

When the bells all ring and the horns all blow
And the couples we know are fondly kissing.
Will I be with you or will I be among the missing?

Maybe it's much too early in the game
Ooh, but I thought I'd ask you just the same
What are you doing New Year's
New Year's eve?

Wonder whose arms will hold you good and tight
When it's exactly twelve o'clock that night
Welcoming in the New Year
New Year's eve

Maybe I'm crazy to suppose
I'd ever be the one you chose
Out of a thousand invitations
You received

Ooh, but in case I stand one little chance
Here comes the jackpot question in advance:
What are you doing New Year's
New Year's Eve?

lyrics : azlyrics

Wedding Fact Friday

2010-03-05T05:40:00.000-06:00

It's been awhile since I've posted one of these.

My fact today will shock and awe you!

First, you need to recall My Big, Fat Greek Wedding.

{oh, yes. my fact involves the awesome movie!}

The dad in the movie says that Windex will fix anything.

Guess what!

It's true.

While Mr. GrapeJuice and I were vacationing a couple weeks ago, we decided to check out wedding bands.

We thought we'd be able to find some for a decent price.

{didn't really happen}

But, while we were trying some on, one got stuck on Mr. GrapeJuice's finger.

The sales associate didn't even flinch.

She got some Windex, squirted on his finger, and presto!

The ring came off.

Such a cool trick!

photo : reflections of a mirror

Thematic Wedding Centerpiece

2010-03-04T06:01:00.000-06:00

As you know, Mr. GrapeJuice and I are getting married on New Years Eve. We are very excited about this! However, I've been kind of lackadaisical with my planning efforts. It's not that I don't want to plan because I really, really do. I just feel soooooooooooooooooooooo overwhelmed by everything that is going on in my life. My mom, trooper that she is and ever motivating her young, dragged me out to Hobby Lobby over the weekend. And now, thanks to her, I have a NEW centerpiece!

The recipe for said centerpiece is...

two pieces blue ostrich feathers,

two pieces white ostrich feathers,

one cylindrical clear vase

one silver decorative item {which I do not have a picture of}

and a million mylar shreds.

Put it all together, and what do you get?!

A phone photo of my mock-up!

photos : shuttershock, fredaldous, brilliant event planning, hobby lobby

Wishful Wednesday

2010-03-03T05:37:00.000-06:00

I wish that my marriage will be like this!

I saw this video on America's Funniest Home Videos last night.

I was watching it with my family, and we voted that it was one of the best videos we'd ever seen.

And, don't worry, guys, he makes her dance too!

It's mutual.

Happy Hump Day!!

Best Monday Ever

2010-03-02T05:09:00.001-06:00

Yesterday was perhaps the best Monday I've had in a long time. :) Two wonderful things happened! Around 10 o'clock in the morning, I got an email from our realtor. The sellers accepted our offer! We will be closing on the house in April. I'm so excited. :D Below are some pictures of the inside of our house and the backyard.

The other fabulous thing that happened yesterday is that I won a contest. It wasn't just any contest either. I won a free photography shoot! Can anyone say engagement session?? Because, that sure was my first thought when I saw that I won.

The photographer is planning on hosting another contest of this nature. Definitely check them out - Framed by Fletcher!

Wedding Progress

2010-03-01T09:06:00.001-06:00

Over the weekend, my mother asked me if I had made any wedding progress. I looked at her and laughed. I just got back from a cruise and was not even ready to think about those things. She gave me the mom talk though. You know, the one that says you need to get on that sooner rather then later; the one that makes you feel like a disappointing child again. =]
Well, she got bored on Saturday and wanted to head over to Hobby Lobby because she had a coupon. She made a copy for me so that I could use one too. 25% goes a long way when you're on a budget and trying to buy a house. (more on the house later) While at Hobby Lobby, I had a planning break through. I picked a centerpiece style, which is perfect for our wedding, and I decided on flowers for the bridesmaids to carry. Later on this week, I will break it down and show you what I am thinking. Plus, I will attempt to show you the DIY step-by-steps that go along with the project. =]

A House to a Home

2010-02-28T15:33:00.000-06:00

Since January, Mr. GrapeJuice and I have been looking for a house. We think that it is a perfect time to buy since the interest rate is low. Plus, the added incentive of $8,000 doesn't hurt the process either. At some points, we were overwhelmed and didn't know what to do. But, we took our week long vacation to think about it and decided to pursue a house. It is a lovely, cozy 1940s cottage style home. {fingers crossed}

Wishful Wednesday

2010-02-24T05:29:00.002-06:00

I wish...

my wedding dress was here.

I want to put it on and have it fitted to my body!

May can't come soon enough.

photo : the sunday telegraph

Lenten Promises

2010-02-23T19:20:00.001-06:00

You may or may not know that I am Catholic. I have mentioned a few times that we will be having a Catholic ceremony since Mr. GrapeJuice and I are both Catholic. Right now in the Catholic world, we are in the Lenten season. Some times people get confused by this so I'd like to explain. {Please, don't take this as preachy or me trying to convert you. I am just sharing information.}

Lent is...
about conversion, turning our lives more completely over to Christ and his way of life. That always involves giving up sin in some form. The goal is not just to abstain from sin for the duration of Lent but to root sin out of our lives forever. Conversion means leaving behind an old way of living and acting in order to embrace new life in Christ.
The three traditional pillars of Lenten observance are prayer, fasting and alms-giving. The key to renewed appropriation of these practices is to see their link to baptismal renewal.
Prayer: More time given to prayer during Lent should draw us closer to the Lord. We might pray especially for the grace to live out our baptismal promises more fully.
Fasting: Fasting is one of the most ancient practices linked to Lent. In fact, the paschal fast predates Lent as we know it. The early Church fasted intensely for two days before the celebration of the Easter Vigil. This fast was later extended and became a 40-day period of fasting leading up to Easter. Fasting is more than a means of developing self-control. It is often an aid to prayer, as the pangs of hunger remind us of our hunger for God.Fasting should be linked to our concern for those who are forced to fast by their poverty, those who suffer from the injustices of our economic and political structures, those who are in need for any reason. Fasting can help us realize the suffering that so many people in our world experience every day, and it should lead us to greater efforts to alleviate that suffering. Abstaining from meat traditionally also linked us to the poor, who could seldom afford meat for their meals.
Alms-giving: It is a sign of our care for those in need and an expression of our gratitude for all that God has given to us. Works of charity and the promotion of justice are integral elements of the Christian way of life we began when we were baptized. [information found at catholic.org]

For this Lenten season, I haven't really decided to "give up" anything but to try and work at some things. I'd like to work on...

1. Not getting angry over little things

2. Not arguing over trivial information and midunderstandings

3. Not yelling/getting upset after my directions are not followed

4. Being more peaceful and understanding towards everything in life

{I'll let you know how it's going at the halfway point and at the end.}

Winner! =]

2010-02-22T19:18:00.000-06:00

I am so excited to reveal the winner of my first giveaway! I have to say that it was quite successful. And, I want to thank you all for entering! :) I hope to hold more in the very near future.

So...

without further ado...

the winner of...

the personalized notecards

the personalized hanger

the gift card to MyWeddingFavors.com

is...

Natosha @ Big Spoon + Little Spoon

Congrats, girl!

E-mail me within the next 48 hours to claim your prizes.

2 Years! (& a Giveaway)

2010-02-13T10:07:00.001-06:00

I honestly cannot believe that Mr. GrapeJuice and I have hit the two year mark! It seems like we just met. I'll never forget that night.

It was January and nearly midnight, and it began to flurry outside {in NC}. My college BFF K-Bean {who is
from Savannah} and I got killer excited and started prancing around {and making fools of ourselves} in the snow! We were thoroughly enjoying it knowing full well that school would be closed the next day. However, Mr. GrapeJuice told us we were wrong and that we would have class the next day. K-Bean and I bust out in laughter. Everyone in the South knows that even a small dusting of snow means that school will be canceled.

{K-Bean and I being silly. We were practicing our show choreography.}

{I'm the girl in the dark red jacket; he's the guy on the right side of the picture in the gray jacket.}

{This is when he's telling us that what's falling isn't enough to cancel school.}

For the next month, Mr. GrapeJuice and I started to hang out a lot. Apparently, during the fall semester, we had admired each other from afar without even realizing it. About two weeks after knowing each other, I told K-Bean that I thought I might have a crush on Mr. GrapeJuice. In February, Mr. GrapeJuice and I were jokingly lamenting our lack of Valentine's; so, we agreed to be each others. Easy fix! We didn't exactly get to Valentine's Day before he asked me to be his girlfriend. It was like 2 minutes until midnight though. =] He got me some adorable cute things though. A bear, which I still have to this day, a rose, and a sweet card for our first Valentine's Day.

I didn't have class for awhile that day so I relaxed in K-Bean's room and watched Love, Actually, which apparently a poor decision as Mr. GrapeJuice had planned to watch it with me later that night. However, that night he took me to Chili's for our first date. He kept it a complete secret from me the whole day; so sweet. I had to rush out of my class and all the way back to my dorm to get ready in time. We had to rush to eat because I had to be at rehearsal at 6:30 for the show I was choreographing. We still had a wonderful time eating dinner and getting to know each other!

Without a doubt, these past two years have flown by. I had no idea I would be here or doing this. I mean, getting married? Teaching at a school I used to attend? Buying a house? Planning a wedding? Phew! Best two years together. I can't wait for the rest of our lives. =]

In honor of being together for two years, I have decided to host my first giveaway. [I also happen to have 50+ followers now too.] I will be giving away a set of personalized note cards from Just Wright Designs, a personalized hanger from Lila Frances, and a gift card for MyWeddingFavors.com.

To enter my giveaway:

1. You must be a follower {and tell me that you are in a comment}

2. Tell me about how you and your honey met or tell me how you would like to meet your future honey {in a separate comment from the one above}

3. Follow me on Twitter and tweet about the giveaway {in a separate comment}

4. Post about it on your blog {leave another comment with the url}

That's FOUR ways to enter!!

I will announce the winner on February 22, 2010!

Ashley's Bride Guide

2010-02-11T20:53:00.000-06:00

Most of you are aware that I work with Ashley at Ashley's Bride Guide. It has been a great experience. If you haven't checked out the website, then you really must do so. It's is the best local resource for Middle TN brides. And, even if you aren't from the area, there is a ton of inspiration on there. Recently, the site got a little face lift. So, if you haven't visited us recently, you really need to hightail your butt over there to check it out. It's completely revamped and ready to meet your needs. And, be sure to let us know what you think about it. Feedback is always welcome! :)

AHHHHHHH!

2010-02-06T19:42:00.000-06:00

Ladies {and gentlemen?},
I am so,so,so,so,so,so,so,soooooooooooo sorry that I have abandoned you, but you would not believe the past two weeks I've had. It's been one thing after another after another. This past week was Catholic Schools Week. If you're not familiar with it, basically I don't get to teacher at all. =] There's always something going on in the classroom, like Parent's Day when the parents come in and do different activities {not academic work}, Celebrity Reader where the Mayor came and read to my class, having the high school band come and perform at your school, etc. See, how there's no room to teach in there at all? That's why I was at my wit's end and unable to think of anything. So much stress. Blech. I only have one more week until my cruise, and then everything should calm down. So, please, just bear with me. =]
In other news, Mr. GrapeJuice and I may have found a place to call home after searching for a little over a month. It's going to be a huge step in the right direction for us. I'm hoping that all the nitpicking will get ironed out too; we've been a little less than kind to each other with all the stress between us. =[ But, also, I've made it to 50+ followers, which means that I'll be having a give away in the very near future so look for it!!! Please don't leave me yet. I promise things are looking up! Wedding plans are being made. =]

Save the Date

2010-01-30T09:48:00.001-06:00

Here's a little sneak peek at the Save the Date I designed. It's perfectly simple and gets the job done! =]

G-L-A-M-O-R-O-U-S

2010-01-26T05:52:00.000-06:00

A little over two weeks ago, the lovely Natosha of big spoon + little spoon passed along an award to me. I can't believe it has taken me this long to thank her for it. {Sorry, Natosha!!}It seriously made my Monday morning easier to deal with though!

I'd like to pass this award on to some other glamorous ladies...

Kristin @ Miss Kriss

Amanda @ Expecting the Unexpected

Amber @ 100 Days to Plan a Wedding

Christin @ A Classy, Catholic, Southern Bride

Musical Monday - Celine Dion

2010-01-25T05:33:00.002-06:00

Have you ever been in love
You could touch the moonlight
When your heart's shooting stars
You're holding heaven in your arms
Have you ever been so in love

Have you ever walked on air
Ever felt like you were dreamin'
When you never thought it could
But it really feels that good
Have you ever been so in love

Have you ever been in love
You could touch the moonlight
When your heart's shooting star
You're holding heaven in your arms
Have you ever been in love, have you...

The time I spent
Waiting for something that was heaven-sent
When you find it don't let go,
I know

Have you ever said a prayer
And found that it was answered
All my hope has been restored
And I ain't looking anymore
Have you ever been so in love, have you...

Some place that you ain’t leavin’
Somewhere you're gonna stay
When you finally found the meanin'
Have you ever felt this way

The time I spent
Waiting for something that was heaven-sent
When you find it, don't let go,
I know...

Coz have you ever been so in love, so in love
You could touch the moonlight
You can even reach the stars
Doesn't matter near or far
Have you ever been so in love

Have you ever been in love
Have you ever been in love
So in... love...

lyrics : sing365

Wedding Fact Friday

2010-01-22T05:11:00.000-06:00

photo : goantiques.com

"Snake rings dotted with ruby eyes were popular wedding bands in Victorian England - the coils winding into a circle symbolized eternity." (source)

Wishful Wednesday

2010-01-20T06:18:00.000-06:00

This Wednesday, I am wishing that this weekend goes well.

For the past two weekends, Mr. GrapeJuice and I have been looking at houses with our realtor.

I've found one that I like, and he's found one that he likes. However, they are two completely different styles.

The one I like is more contemporary and has great updates and features. The one he likes is an older home with great square footage.

We are going to view a few more homes this weekend, and I hope we fall in love with one of them.

Also, this weekend, I'm taking my mom, matron of honor {sister}, and my maid of honor {BFF} to see what I hope will be my wedding dress.

photo : trip advisor

Opportunity #2 and #3

2010-01-19T06:13:00.000-06:00

About a month or so ago, I mentioned that I had been given a plentiful amount of opportunities. Well, I'm so excited to be able to she with you some more of the opportunities that I have been given!

Opportunity #2

[from Get Married]

I'm in print!!

photo : get married

Check out their latest magazine.

Not only am I in it, but it's filled with a multitude of information!

Opportunity #3

[from Ashley's Bride Guide]

I'm a bridal blogger!

My first post was put on the site today.

Be sure and check it out!

Musical Monday - Jon Schmidt

2010-01-18T10:46:00.000-06:00

I randomly found this song combo on YouTube. Due to copyright, the composer can't sell the song. He's been trying to contact the artist but hasn't had any luck. I'm completely in love with it. It would make great processional or a prelude music. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do. It combines Taylor Swift's Love Story with Coldplay's Viva La Vida.

Wedding Fact Friday

2010-01-15T05:35:00.000-06:00

Peas.

Who likes peas?

I like black-eyed peas but not green peas.

Would you like peas to be thrown at you instead of rice?

photo : moira heath's blog

"Peas are thrown at Czech newlyweds instead of rice." (source)

I have Czech ancestry, but I'm not sure I'd let my Nana throw peas at me.

Would you?

The Big Show

2010-01-14T05:18:00.002-06:00

Nashville Ladies!!!

The big, BIG, BIG bridal show is this weekend.

You know, the one in the convention center downtown?

photo : ashley's bride guide

You need to come check it out.

It's bound to have plentiful information for all aspects of your day.

Before you get there though, you need to prep a little bit.

You can find a handy-dandy to-do list on Ashley's Bride Guide.

Plus, be sure to stop and check out the ABG booth!

{I'll be there from 12-2, if that's any incentive.}

The details are below.

Sunday, January 17, 2010

10am - 4pm

Nashville Convention Center

601 Commerce Street

Nashville, TN 37203

Pre-Registration [online] Tickets: $10

{Ticket price includes a year's subscription to BRIDES magazine for each registered bride-to-be}

For the Exhibitors List, click here.

Wishful Wednesday

2010-01-13T05:43:00.001-06:00

I got one of my many wedding wishes granted!

Mr. GrapeJuice and I are moving up our wedding date.

Oh, yes! We are.

Can you guess when it is?

Give up?

New Year's Eve!!

Of...

2010!

I can't believe my wedding is this year.

I'm so excited for the journey!

photo : 1978 new york times via elicia buzz

Surprise Wedding Reception

2010-01-12T05:45:00.001-06:00

I was clicking around YouTube this morning and found a wonderfully sweet video. It's by a group called Improv Everywhere, and they stage scenes in random places at random times. This scene really touched my heart because not everyone has the luxury of throwing a wedding and having all the amenities that come with it. I hope you enjoy the video.

Musical Monday - Jason Mraz

2010-01-11T05:49:00.000-06:00

It took Mr. GrapeJuice and I awhile to figure out what our song was. I think it was nearly a year. But, it's funny, because as soon as we started dating, I started hearing it everywhere. My first exposure to it was at a cast party the same February that we started dating. Pretty cool, right? When we were apart and heard it on the radio, we would call each other and play it over the phone. {Yes, we're that couple!} To this day, it still makes me smile, and I love the feeling I get listening to it.

I'm Yours

Well you done done me and you bet I felt it
I tried to be chill but you're so hot that I melted
I fell right through the cracks
Now I'm trying to get back
Before the cool done run out
I'll be giving it my bestest
And nothing's going to stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it's again my turn to win some or learn some

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait, I'm yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find love love love love
Listen to the music of the moment babay sing with me
I love peace for melody
And It's our God-forsaken right to be loved love loved love loved

So I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

Scooch on over closer dear
And I will nibble your ear

I've been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror
And bending over backwards just to try to see it clearer
But my breath fogged up the glass
And so I drew a new face and laughed
I guess what I'm be saying is there ain't no better reason
To rid yourself of vanity and just go with the seasons
It's what we aim to do
Our name is our virtue

But I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm sure

Well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find that the sky is yours
Please don't, please don't, please don't
There's no need to complicate
Cause our time is short
This oh this this is out fate, I'm yours!

lyrics : sing365

And, because I can't pass up anything cute, here you go!

Wedding Fact Friday

2010-01-08T09:50:00.000-06:00

"The first kiss a bride and groom share at the close of the ceremony has carried special significance through the centuries. Many cultures believed that the couple exchanged spirits with their breath and part of their souls were exchanged as well." (source)

photo : brides

Light the Way

2010-01-07T09:58:00.002-06:00

I love light. There is just something about it that can make or break your mood. For example, I seriously dislike fluorescent lights. They are unflattering to both figure and face. I always seem to look tired and pasty in fluorescent lighting. {This is why makeup is a girl's best friend.} And, trying on clothes in a dressing room, let's just not even go there. {This is why girls shop in pairs/groups.}

photo : archi expo

Now, uplighting I like. It's dramatic and can completely change the ambiance of a room. Why go for just a dimly lit room when you can completely make your own with uplighting. Bring in an amber color to set a romantic mood. Or, use colors from the scheme of your wedding/event. However, you choose to use it; you won't be sorry. Change something ordinary into something extraordinary.

photos : entertainment tonite

Me? I'm a fan of the blues, the yellows/ambers, and the purples. It's soft and welcoming while adding a "Let's Celebrate" vibe, especially the purple uplighting. I just have to see a picture, and I start melting. I would love to add something like this to my wedding reception - wherever it may be! :) However, I'm not quite sure it's in the budget. Again, a girl can dream, right?! {Of course.}

photo : slyvia wayfer events

photo : it's your night

photo : love and splendor

Stop and Smell the Roses

2010-01-06T05:06:00.001-06:00

Admittedly, I do not like roses. They are a very generic flower that is quite overused. I associate cheesy high school romances with them. You know...like the dreaded prom corsage??

photo : pgclms teenspace

Blech.

Remind me again why I obsessed over prom two years in a row!!

Perhaps I'm just a glutton for punishment.

I digress {because I swear there's a point to this}!

A couple of months ago, I started falling in love with peonies. They seem to be the IT flower right now. I like how full they are and the suppleness of the bloom. For a beautiful bouquet, you don't really seem to need many stems either when using peonies.

photo : vogue flowers

Peonies can get quite costly though. For just a bridal bouquet, you could end up spending a pretty penny. For me, that's a deterrence. When you're on a budget, it's hard to justify a huge purchase on flowers. You know? Luckily though, I found a suitable alternative in the rose family. {Here comes my point!}

photo : matha stewart

Do you see how similar they appear?! It's like magic. One, I, apparently, can like roses. And, two, I can find a suitable alternative for peonies! {Don't worry. I googled it. They're not the same flowers with different names.}

Now, let's play a game!

Guess which flower arrangement is which!!

{This should be fun.}

Arrangement One

photo : sunset

Arrangement Two

photo : country living

Let the guessing begin!!

New Year; New Me; New Job

2010-01-05T05:27:00.000-06:00

So...

here I am...

sitting at my computer after my first day at my new job.

For the life of me, I can't think of a wedding-related thing.

The first day was great.

Everything went smoothly, and I'm excited to go back today.

I'm just tired from no sleep...

{I sweat I woke up 5 times because I was worried I wouldn't hear my alarm}

and Jillian Michaels kicked my butt when I did get up.

Plus, I was so nervous about making it all perfect that I didn't exactly...

you know...

eat.

I'll post something tomorrow.

Promise.

Thanks for sticking with me!

p.s. Only 2 more followers!

We're so close.

Musical Monday - Jim Cummings

2010-01-04T05:18:00.001-06:00

I'm a fool for Disney princess movies. When I saw that they were making The Princess and the Frog, I was seriously stoked. I couldn't wait for it to come out! {yes, I know that I am an adult} I went and saw it last week. It wasn't what I was expecting, but I adored every second of it. By the time it was over, I had no idea that it had been 2 hours. I simply adored the firefly from the bayou; he was so precious. I couldn't help but think how perfect one of his songs would be for a wedding.

Ma Belle Evangeline

Look how she lights up the sky
Ma belle Evangeline
So far above me yet I
Know her heart belongs to only me

J'adore, J'taime, Evangeline
You're my queen of the night
So still, so bright

To someone as beautiful as she
Who loves someone like me
Love always finds a way, it's true
And I love you Evangeline
(spoken)
Oooh, yeah!

(sung)
Love is beautiful
Love is beautifil
Love is everything, do you agree?
Mais oui!

Look how she lights up the sky
I love you, Evangeline

lyrics : STLyrics

p.s. Today is my first day of school as teacher, wish me luck!

{I think I'm going to need it.}

Wedding Fact Friday

2010-01-01T10:53:00.000-06:00

Since it's the holiday season and lots couples are getting engaged, I thought I'd share some history with you!

"The practice of giving or exchanging engagement rings began in 1477 when Roman Emperor, Maximilian I, gave Mary of Burgundy a diamond ring as an engagement present." (source)

photo : corbis

New Year's Eve

2009-12-31T07:57:00.000-06:00

Mr. GrapeJuice and I will be spending our night at home. Originally, I had hoped we could go out and have fun, but with our New Year's resolution being to save money, I was turned down. That's all right though. Drinks with the parents and football and Dexter should make for an interesting night!

I hope you all have a wonderful night doing fabulous things!

photo : Nashville Scene

Wishful Wednesday

2009-12-30T09:26:00.000-06:00

I wish I could look like Ivanka Trump on my wedding day.

photos : star magazine

Not only does she look absolutely stunning, but she also looks incredibly happy and at peace.

I can only hope that I look as perfect on my wedding day.

I Simply MUST Have a Ring Bearer & a Flower Girl

2009-12-29T10:30:00.000-06:00

I always knew that I wanted to have cute little kids in my wedding.

I love kids.

They are so cute and honest.

This is why I became a teacher.

Here are a few more reasons why I want little ones at my wedding!

photo : elizabeth anne designs

photo : jenifer sander via life & adventures of the jenkins revealed

photo : skywater images

photo : manolo brides

photo : theresa choi

Musical Monday - NSYNC

2009-12-28T08:35:00.006-06:00

Since New Year's Eve is coming up in just a matter of days, I've decided to post a little song that I used to listen to when I was younger. And, yes, it still is a little guilty pleasure of mine at times...like this coming week. =] {By the way, have you made your New Year's resolution(s) yet? Mr. GrapeJuice and I sure have - save money!!}

Kiss Me at Midnight

Kiss me at midnight
(5...)
hey yeah...
(4...)
oh...
(3, 2, 1!)
Kiss me at midnight
Dance until the morning light
Party into the New Year
All of my friends are here
And when the timing's right
Kiss me at midnight

Kiss...

I've been waiting for the special night
To be with you
The colors of Christmas are still shining bright
And I know what we're gonna do
Anticipating, music is playing
The magic is in the air
All through the season
You've been the reason
I have so much love to share

Kiss me at midnight
Dance until the morning light
Party into the New Year
All of my friends are here
And when the timing's right
Kiss me at midnight

Kiss...
Kiss me at midnight
Kiss...

We've been making promises in the dark
Our resolutions
As a brand new year is about to start
And we're together.
Celebrating, no more waiting
Our time has arrived
The beat in my heart
As the countdown starts
Just look into my eyes
Kiss me at midnight
Dance until the morning light
Party into the New Year
All of my friends are here
And when the timing's right
Kiss me at midnight

Baby, it's New Year's Eve
Time we can believe
In making wishes
Dreams come true
Just for me and you

[break]
Kiss me at midnight
Dance until the morning light
Party into the New Year
All of my friends are here
And when the timing's right
Kiss me at midnight

Kiss me at midnight
Dance until the morning light
Party into the New Year
All of my friends are here
And when the timing's right
Kiss me at midnight

[to fade]
Kiss me at midnight
Dance until the morning light
Party into the New Year
All of my friends....

lyrics : AZLyrics

p.s. Happy Birthday, little brother!
{he's 9 today}

Christmas Recap

2009-12-26T14:00:00.000-06:00

Hope you guys had a magical Christmas and enjoyed the time spent with your family.

Plus, I hope you got all the presents you wished for!

I, personally, was wishing for a Cricut Expression. I'd been drooling over them since I first saw the commercial. I definitely think it is something that is beneficial for both teaching and crafting {especially wedding things}! I got it in black.

photo : ebay

That was my big gift, and I was so incredibly grateful for it. I've played with it a little all ready and can't wait to create many wedding things on it! I also can't wait to use the four cartridges that I got as well.

Mr. GrapeJuice did a pretty impressive job as well. I was quite impressed. He had a little help from me, but not a lot. He's getting better and better all the time.Below are some of my favorite gifts that he gave me this year.

Lands' End Wool Moccasin Slippers in Navy

The Love Dare {which I am starting on Monday}

photo : lifeway stores

Escada Into the Blue

photo : parfumy.eu

Merry Christmas

2009-12-25T08:00:00.004-06:00

photo : dryicons

I hope everyone has had a magical day so far. And, I also hope that you continue to have one. This is most definitely a day that it is important to celebrate the love and family that surrounds you all year round. I will be spending mine in TN with my family! :)

And, as a good wedding blog, I will now share some gorgeous winter wedding inspiration with you a la The Perfect Palette. {If you have not visited her site, then you are seriously missing out on some wonderfully unique color scheme ideas!}

Here are some of her inspiration boards.

{For image credits, please visit her site!}

Sleigh Bells Ring, Are You Listening?

Please Have Snow and Mistletoe

Dashing Through the Snow

All I Want For Christmas is You

Have a Holly, Jolly Christmas

Let It Snow, Let It Snow, Let It Snow

Visions of Sugar Plums

Baby, It's Cold Outside

Possible Date Change...again

2009-12-24T09:05:00.004-06:00

Originally, Mr. GrapeJuice and I had picked the all-typical Saturday night wedding.

photo : southwest airlines spirit

Our original plan was to have our wedding on a three day weekend so that all our OOT family and friends would be able to make it and have an extra day of travel. We are still highly considering this, and it will most likely be part of date picking. [See? Trying to be considerate of the guests! No bridezilla yet.]

photo : gretchen b photography

The first weekend that was spat out was Memorial Day weekend. While I thought it would be a good idea and good timing, it won't be possible. I'm a teacher, and that's the end of the school year. Talk about stress!

photo : naomi win

The next 3-day weekend suggestion was 4th of July. I jumped on that bandwagon quickly. It was the perfect time because the 4th will fall on a Monday in 2011, which will give people an extra day to travel home.

photo : barrie downle photography

Now, here's where the possible date change comes in. Mr. GrapeJuice and I had originally chosen July 2, 2011 as our wedding date. It hadn't been set in stone because - obviously - we still have time to make that decision. But, we've seriously been struggling with where to hold our ceremony and reception. We're both Catholic so it's a no brainer that we'll be getting married in the church. But...which church? That's been our struggle all along. Don't get me wrong. I love the church that I'm a parishoner of, but, the new church is horribly designed. Hello! No center aisle = epic fail! [for me at least] Below are some pictures of the new church I found on our facebook group.

Picture One: A view of the whole church from the side

Picture Two: A view of the altar from the center aisle

Picture Three: A view of the baptismal font and door I would enter through

It's a beautiful church, but I always pictured my self walking down a long center aisle to my one true love. Could I suck it up and get married in this church? Absolutely! My grandmother is the wedding coordinator at the facility. My grandfather is a deacon at the church. Definitely some bonus points and freebies heading my way. But...the reception facility leaves a LOT to be desired as well...if you have your wedding on a Saturday that is.

On Friday, Mr. GrapeJuice, my parents, my grandparents, and myself all went to the church Christmas party. The party was held in the old church. And, let me tell you, it's gorgeous! It was originally a barn that was remodeled into a church. It has stunningly stained wood for the ceiling, and the lighting can be adjusted from bright, bright, bright to a sultry, romantic feel. Plus, it easily and comfortably fits 200+ people with a more than adequate dance floor, as we discovered on Friday.

photo : facebook

The only downside is that if we want to use this gorgeous space for our reception, we'd have to have the wedding on a Friday. There are pews and other knickknacks that have to be moved out and moved back in before Sunday mass. Totally doable though!

So...here's a recap:

1. we still don't have a for sure date

2. i could compromise and settle for my church ~~even though i hate the logistics of the design and it cost millions of dollars to make it look like that~~

3. a friday night wedding gives us a ~~prettier~~ more spacious reception venue

4. i hate being indecisive

5. this would be VERY easy on our budget
6. but, now i'd have to rent tables, chairs, linens; find a caterer; etc.

p.s.

Merry Christmas Eve!

Wishful Wednesday

2009-12-23T07:19:00.001-06:00

I'll keep this short and sweet.

I'm going to wish that you all have a wonderful holiday weekend!

photo : send happy

And, I'm also wishing for 5 more followers!
I have something great in the works for a giveaway, but I can't do anything until you guys become followers.

Happy Holidays!

Free Monogram!

2009-12-22T07:45:00.001-06:00

I absolutely adore monograms and think they are positively essential for any wedding. They are so chic and are a great detail for every aspect of your big day.

You could...

make them into a stamp for your wedding envelopes

or use it as wedding favor tags

or have it put into your cake design.

See?

Endless uses!

If you are looking for a monogram design, you need to friend Custom Printable on Twitter.

If you become a follower and comment on a post on her blog, you can get a free monogram.

Oh, yes.

That's right.

FREE!

Hurry.

Go now.

This deal ends tomorrow!

If you need more convincing, check out the monogram I got on Saturday.

It's so perfect. She made me two actually. One with our married last name and one without.

{I just didn't feel comfortable putting that up on the blog.}

I love that I got this free.

It's beautiful!

Thanks, Valerie.

[as a note:: this is not a sponsored/compensated post. no money/product was given in exchange for advertisement.]

Music Monday - Neptune's Daughter

2009-12-21T08:38:00.000-06:00

I don't think this song needs much of an introduction. No matter where you were this past weekend, I'm sure you either experienced or heard about the snow that fell on the states. And, because it was cold and wet where I am, I decided that this was a great song to put a smile on your faces this Monday morning.

From Neptune's Daughter...

Baby, It's Cold Outside

Baby It's Cold Outside

Christine | MySpace Video

I really can't stay - Baby it's cold outside
I've got to go away - Baby it's cold outside
This evening has been - Been hoping that you'd drop in
So very nice - I'll hold your hands, they're just like ice
My mother will start to worry - Beautiful, what's your hurry
My father will be pacing the floor - Listen to the fireplace roar
So really I'd better scurry - Beautiful, please don't hurry
Well maybe just a half a drink more - Put some music on while I pour

The neighbors might think - Baby, it's bad out there
Say, what's in this drink - No cabs to be had out there
I wish I knew how - Your eyes are like starlight
To break the spell - I'll take your hat, your hair looks swell
I ought to say no, no, no, sir - Mind if I move closer
At least I'm gonna say that I tried - What's the sense in hurting my pride?
I really can't stay - Baby don't hold out
Ahh, but it's cold outside

C'mon baby

I simply must go - Baby, it's cold outside
The answer is no - Ooh darling, it's cold outside
This welcome has been - I'm lucky that you dropped in
So nice and warm - Look out the window at that storm
My sister will be suspicious - Man, your lips look delicious
My brother will be there at the door - Waves upon a tropical shore
My maiden aunt's mind is vicious - Gosh your lips are delicious
Well maybe just a half a drink more - Never such a blizzard before

I've got to go home - Oh, baby, you'll freeze out there
Say, lend me your coat - It's up to your knees out there
You've really been grand - I thrill when you touch my hand
But don't you see - How can you do this thing to me?
There's bound to be talk tomorrow - Think of my life long sorrow
At least there will be plenty implied - If you caught pneumonia and died
I really can't stay - Get over that hold out
Ahh, but it's cold outside
Baby it's cold outside

lyrics : STLyrics

Wedding Fact Friday

2009-12-18T08:05:00.000-06:00

All About the Dress

"Traditionally, brides did not wear white wedding gowns. Through the 18th century, most brides just wore their Sunday best to their wedding. Red was a favorite during the Middle Ages in Europe. Other colors were worn for symbolic reasons: blue meant constancy and green meant youth. As years passed, white was worn as a symbol of purity. Today, white merely symbolizes the wedding and is worn by any bride, no matter if it is their second marriage." (source)

photo : weddingnet.org

A Bridal Luncheon

2009-12-17T08:11:00.000-06:00

So...

I totally promised Mr. GrapeJuice that I wouldn't spend any unnecessary money as we are attempting to buy a house soon.

But...

I think it would be super cool to attend the bridal brunch hosted by Her Nashville and the NFocus magazine on January 31, 2010.

Are any fellow Nashville brides planning on attending?

Let me know.

Maybe we can meet up!

photo : flickr [kylie lambert]

Wishful Wednesday

2009-12-16T07:25:00.001-06:00

This Wishful Wednesday will be short and simple.

I seriously wish GLEE was not on hiatus!!

WHY?!?!?!

Stupid American Idol.

I was never a fan of you, and I really do not like you anymore.

period.

You have stolen GLEE from me until April.

how rude!

photo : last.fm

p.s. I'm only 6 followers away from hosting a giveaway!

Holiday Detail

2009-12-15T08:01:00.002-06:00

With only two days left at my current job, observing my new students at my new job, and only ten days left until Christmas, I'm totally wondering where all my time is going. Luckily, today, my second graders are going on a field trip so I don't need to be at school today - which saved me from getting up at 5 am today. [yay]

But, unfortunately, because of all this wonderfulness surrounding me, I haven't really had a moment to sit down and be inspired by any wedding details. The only thing burning in my mind right now is a photo wreath that I saw on Project Wedding.

I think this idea would be a wonderful addition to any winter wedding. It is simple and would look divine in a number of places. You could make multiples too if you wanted and place them on doors or around the reception area. I, personally, think it would look spectacular by the cake table! Wherever, or however, you use it, it is a great detail and totally reusable.

And, if you're not getting married, maybe use the holiday cards you're getting and make a wreath out of them as a holiday decoration for those parties you're throwing!

Musical Monday - Jim Brickman

2009-12-14T07:40:00.001-06:00

Since I was a little girl, my mother has always listened to Jim Brickman. She even got to see him in concert.

[lucky!]

But, because of her, I've fallen in love with his music as well.

He has a beautiful song written called The Gift that I love to listen to around Christmas time.

It's so sweet and meaningful.

I listened to it last night and nearly cried because it's so touching.

Winter snow is falling down
Children laughing all around
Lights are turning on
like a fairy tale come true.

Sitting by the fire we made
You're the answer when i prayed
I would find someone
and baby I found you.

All I want is to hold you forever
All I need is you more every day
You saved my heart
from being broken apart
You gave your love away
and I'm thankful every day
for the gift.

Watching as you softly sleep
What I'd give if I could keep
Just this moment
if only time stood still.

But the colors fade away
And the years will make us grey
But baby in my eyes
You'll still be beautiful.

All I want is to hold you forever
All I need is you more every day
You saved my heart
from being broken apart
You gave your love away
And I'm thankful every day
for the gift.

All I want is to hold you forever
All I need is you more every day
You saved my heart
from being broken apart
You gave your love away
I can't find the words to say
That I'm thankful every day

for the gift.

lyrics : romantic lyrics

Wedding Fact Friday

2009-12-11T05:36:00.001-06:00

Are you struggling to pick a wedding day?

Or, like me, are you trying to convince your honey that the day you picked is the best?

photo : corbis

Either way, here's something you may not have known about popular wedding months!

"August is the top month for weddings, with an average of 10.2% taking place. June comes in a close second with 9.9%." (source)

I always thought June was the most popular month because June Bride is a common term in the wedding world.

Guess I was wrong!

Wishin' and Hopin'

2009-12-10T10:38:00.003-06:00

I told myself that I would wait until I had 100 followers before I did a giveaway.

But...

I'm thinking [what can be a good thing, contrary to popular belief]...

that when I have 50 followers...

I will host my very own giveaway.

I hope this is an incentive for some of my "stalkers" to finally become actual followers!

Happy Thursday.

Wishful Wednesday

2009-12-09T05:25:00.000-06:00

From now until the end of the year, I'm going to wish that I had more time.

There is lots of work to be done!

But, I'm not complaining one bit.

I love my jobs and what I do. It is worth every minute of my time!

But, if we could squeeze in about one more hour into the day, I'd be quite a happy little girl.

photo found here